She's spilling her thoughts!
Custody Violation
Source: Snapchat @adamjoelind
Even though Adam was perfectly within his rights to visit his daughter, some fans just weren’t impressed. “I am not the least bit convinced that this leopard has changed his spots,” wrote reddit user TdubLakeO. “Let’s not forget that Adam was arrested less than 6 months ago for assault in a domestic violence context and was also charged with violating a protective order in that situation. Not to mention the 3 dozen other arrests that Adam has under his belt AND the failed p*ss tests for meth.”
They added, “I am literally APPALLED that this man is permitted to go into an elementary school to have lunch with his child. I don’t care whether it’s Chelsea’s child or the child of someone at my kid’s school, I don’t like the idea that a person with Adam’s violent tendencies, recent arrests & drug abuse history can walk into a school and be trusted to be around children.”
But not everyone saw it that way. “You can tell [Aubree] loves her father and it kills Chelsea that she does, I honestly think she coached Aubree into wanting to add to her last name,” accused user wheniwasayoungboy_. “YES ADAM SUCKS but everybody deserves a chance to turn their life around.” User Motthebop agreed, “Why did she have to call out it was his first time? How does putting him down publicly help Aubree?”
But it makes sense that fans were concerned, given that Adam had just been busted blatantly violating his custody agreement!
“Chelsea let his parents have [Aubree] for a couple of hours,” a friend of Chelsea’s spilled to Radar Online after Adam posted a picture of him and Aubree together when they shouldn’t have been. She let them spend time with their granddaughter even though the source says “It wasn’t their time to have her.”
“[Chelsea is] livid and won’t do that anymore,” the source said. “These grandparents haven’t learned a d*mn thing. Can definitely tell where Adam gets the law and rules don’t apply to him attitude!” They added that Chelsea even “emailed her lawyer to find out what her next step should be.”
Adoption Ideas
Source: Instagram @coledeboer
On Coffee Convos, Kailyn and Lindsie were concerned about how Adam’s behavior was affecting his daughter. Kailyn asks, “Have you explained what’s going on [to Aubree?]”
Chelsea reveals what she tells Aubree. “This is what’s happening: Your dad is sick right now; he’s not making good choices. For that reason, just for your safety, and just to know that everything’s okay, you’re going to have to see him [at the visitation center] if he sets them up… She just adapts to everything so well. She had a couple questions, but she just seemed to understand.”
“She loves Cole!” Kailyn says. “You don’t really know what you’re missing if you never had it.”
Then the girls want the dish about Cole (because who doesn’t?)
“Chelsea, did you play hard to get at first with Cole?” Kailyn wants to know.
“No, Cole’s so shy! We’re both shy,” Chelsea explains. “We just met out one night. The first couple times we hung out was a group setting…. But I knew right away; there was a feeling. I went home and told Chelsy Grace ‘I”m going to marry this guy at the gas station.’”
“And you did!” Kailyn exclaims. “And you’re two babies deep!”
“Cole texted me the other day and said, ‘Can we just have ten kids?’” Chelsea reveals. “We’re going to have ‘The DeBoer Dozen!’”
Lindsie asks Chelsea if she would carry that many more children, but Chelsea says, “At least one more after this.”
Kailyn spills that she has plans of her own when it comes to her next pregnancy. In fact, she’s recently spilled her plans for her fourth pregnancy!
There’s just one little detail: she doesn’t want a baby daddy to be involved.
Still Scary
Source: Instagram @chelseahouska
“More kids, yes,” Kailyn spilled in an interview with Radar Online. “No more baby daddies!”
She explained that she has other plans to get pregnant for the fourth time. “The sperm bank thing would be a different scenario because it wouldn’t be a dad involved.”
As for Chelsea, there’s just one baby daddy on her mind: her husband Cole. But there’s something else that has been bothering her.
“It’s inevitable that [my children are] going to see [the show] someday. I think Watson is going to be fine because he’s seeing fun, family times. I think Aubree is going to be a little more difficult because she’s going to see the relationship with her dad [Adam Lind] and she’s going to have a lot of questions about our relationship and her relationship with him,” she explained in an interview with E! News. She added, “We’ve always been open with each other. She is open with me and can talk to me so I just want to keep it that way so for when they do watch it, she feels comfortable and won’t have any surprises.”
Even though she wants to protect her daughter, she spilled that fans can count on her to keep her stories truthful and honest. “You want to be open and honest because people are going through the same things that we’re going through and it does kind of feel nice when other people can relate to it,” she spilled. “You want to be open but it’s also scary. Even after nine years, it’s definitely still scary.”