They need to rethink their situation!
When it comes to Teen Mom, sometimes the show seems like a textbook example of how NOT to co-parent children. Often times, the girls and their baby daddies are too busy fighting with one another to make sure they’re taking care of their children. Normally they somehow manage to figure out how it works to raise a child with someone you can hardly stand… but not always.
When Javi and Kailyn first got together, they seemed like the perfect match. They welcomed Kailyn’s second son (and Javi’s first), Lincoln, and became an adorable family of four. However, we all know that that didn’t last very long.
Now these exes are duking it out left, right, and center on social media and in person. Has it finally gone too far?
Many fans have been concerned for Lincoln’s well-being, but now Javi and Kail are being called out by a judge!
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“We don’t love them”
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Everyone knows that it’s tricky to raise a child with your ex. When it comes to Kailyn and Javi, sometimes it seems they can hardly stand to be in a room with one another. In an effort to figure out how to make their relationship work out of the benefit of their children, they headed off to the world of Marriage Boot Camp.
The two insisted that they were only going on the show for the sake of their son, but that doesn’t mean all the feelings between them were gone. They got a serious wake up call on a recent episode when a judge had to intervene to tell them how they were potentially putting Lincoln’s well being at risk with their incessant fighting.
The set had a visit from Divorce Court‘s Judge Lynn Toler, who has seen her fair share of messy divorces that can split up children. “Javi and Kailyn, you guys devolved into a conversation about ‘my house’ and ‘you’re not gonna get my money.’ Let me tell you something about the horror that is me,” Judge Toler said.
She pointed out that judges will never know children as well as their parents do. She continued:
“You don’t want the decision about your children’s lives to be in my hands or in any other judge’s hands. We don’t know your kids, we don’t understand your kids. You’re five minutes on my docket. We gonna make the best decision we can, but we don’t love them.”
Making Up?
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As for their reactions? Kailyn wasn’t surprised by what Judge Toler said.
“I’ve been trying to say this all along,” Kailyn said.
“She has.” Javi admitted. The star added, “That just really hit home for me, just hearing it from a judge who goes through these cases all day every day.”
Hopefully Lincoln’s life will have some improvements considering the couple’s warning… but the question remains as to whether there is any hope for their relationship.
“I did, in my heart, kind of hope this boot camp would make her fall in love with me,” Javi told Us.
But Kailyn sang a different toon. “I didn’t even know those were Javi’s intentions,” she said. “I thought we were going in, literally, to make coparenting work.”
At the premiere party for Marriage Boot Camp, Javi was snapped kissing Kail on the cheek. He captioned the shot, “Despite everything that happened between us I’m happy we are at a place where we can go to events, have a good time and be civil.”
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