He's just not a great guy to anyone
It looks like Amber is about to wise up and say that Matt is going to have to get out of her house because a wedding won't be happening. Perhaps all of Matt's continuous lies finally caught up to him, and he's been exposed as the lying, cheating, philandering man that he really is. Matt may have been just looking for a way to get famous and taken care of for years, and Amber was his biggest fish. Here's all the reasons why we hope Amber doesn't end up with Matt after all.
A Web of Lies
When we first met Matt, he seemed like a good enough guy for Amber although he was a good bit older than her. But then his web of lies began to unravel before our eyes as well as Amber's. He was not forthcoming with Amber about the number of children he had at first.
All Those Kids
Even Matt won't give us an absolutely straight answer about the number of children he has fathered with numerous women, but the current count is nine kids. They range in age from adulthood to being born just before he started dating Amber.
No Support
With all of those kids to pay for, Matt just decided to become a deadbeat dad. At least five of the women that he's had children with have sued him for not paying his child support to them.
Con Man
Clearly, Matt has a way of manipulating people to get what he wants. And that's exactly what he did to a woman in 2009; her name is Judy Cornett, and she's an advocate for children who have suffered sexual abuse.
Apparently, Matt wrote a book about abuse called Guys Don't Rat on Guys and he started talking to Judy. The pair never got intimate, but they went to rallies together for the cause.
When she found out about his romance with Amber, she said, "Matt Baier...You will meet KARMA one day. No way can u get away w/ all uve done! All those children you have hurt and women! Ur a sick soul." She's also called him a "con man," "thief," and a "liar."
Alias
Oh, and about that book he wrote? He wrote it under the fake name Grey Baker. It was supposed to be a novel based off of the real abuse that happened to him, but there's no evidence showing he experienced the things he wrote about.
Pants on Fire
He also denied ever watching Teen Mom which couldn't have been true because he spent a ton of time chatting up and/or bashing other women on the show.
He sent numerous messages to Farrah commenting on her good looks.
Walk Out
Among the reports that he simply walks out on his romantic partners, he also walks out of work. He left his radio DJ job with no warning, and he even stole his on-air persona from another more popular DJ.
Pusher
Matt can talk his way into any woman's heart and home, it appears. The way that he first moved in with Amber, presumably, was by saying that his lease was ending and he needed a place to stay one of the first times they met.
Cheating Ways
While texts have come out recently that seem to show Matt flirting with other women in an aggressive manner behind Amber's back, Amber and Matt have denied all of the cheating rumors.
But considering how many women Matt played simultaneously and got pregnant by him, I think it's safe to say that Matt has been cheating on his women for most of his life.
Can't Get Along
We don't know much about Amber's bother Shawn, but Matt seems to think that he really knows what's going on between them.
When Matt got angry about Amber taking her brother's advice about not eloping in Las Vegas, Matt said, "I’m not marrying her now, ever. She wants to marry her brother! That’s who she wants to marry!"
Slurs
During the time that Matt was ranting and raving about how he refused to let Amber's family run his life, he hurled a homophobic slur at Shawn. It's not known whether Shawn is gay or not.
Fake Addict
Matt was able to win Amber's heart by telling her that he once suffered from drug addiction like her, and they bonded over their struggle. But there has never been any evidence to show that Matt was addicted to anything other than conning people.
An Angry Guy
Matt may have lied about being a former addict, but it seems like he's currently an alcohol addict.
In 2015, Amber was celebrating the fact that she was finally off of parole. She and Matt went to Vegas to have some fun, and Matt got a little drunk and a little violent. He admitted to punching a wall so hard that Amber got scared and asked for the producers to come in and calm him down.
Pushing Women to Depression
In 2014, it was revealed that Matt had been accused of sexually assaulting his then-girlfriend. She ended up getting a restraining order against Matt, and he was never arrested for the crime, but the women wound up committing suicide. She had a young child.
Amber's Future
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